Over 500, extra-long lines long loaded with Hariisms*, sensitive advice capitalized where emphasis was deemed necessary and carefully selected anecdotes from his own vast experience.
Most gameplans appear to involve several things which normally would make me pee in my pants - including 'regular calling', 'casual' calling and 'casual chatting' about 'hobbies' 'interest' and so on.
My protestations claiming that i am naturally 'shy' are dismissed brusqely - 'you are shy when youre 18. You are not shy when youre 25'
Quick round-up of key observations:
- In general the consensus seems to be that i am too late to be involved in such puppy trash (i agree)
- Successful bladefying is a painstaking excercise, requiring diligent effort, often developing / even faking an interest in things that one normally never ever thinks about (i disagree. Successful mutual bladefying is a 'chemistry' related thing - might sound hillbillyish - but i think its true)
- It is extremely VITAL - before committing oneself into a project fully - to collect basic fundae on the subject - thereby avoiding waste of energy & needless unpleasantness. (FULLY agree)
- Refrain from using 'geeky' language, anecdotes and so on (typical examples that were mentioned are most of my blogspots) - while,um, engaging, the subject.
Well, we'll see - wont we ?
Notes:
* Sample Hariisms:
8:51 PM Hariharasudhan: dude girls r like sphagetti
9:04 PM Hariharasudhan: dude its like nadal not in wimbledon. ADV Federer. USE IT!
Other key lines
9:06 PM Hariharasudhan: dont go too deep into the relationsihp PLEASE
9:08 PM Hariharasudhan: dude its all a learning experience thats good and thats bad too
P.S - i had a brief chat with another friend a few minutes before, a female in this case - mostly jokingly - she thought i am 'as usual confused' 'chumma joking with her' (talking about hobbies/interests) and finally " Loosu, Nee solradhu paadhi onnume puriyalai da." (when i try faking sophistication)
So much for all the earlier analysis - a few mins spent trying to chat up P brings one crashing down to earth. :x
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4 comments:
=))))))
Ur 1 sneaky bastard by the way... Got tremendous potential (which I see from your blog - ur first home work)I'll comment more when we chat....
i just went thru the chat transcript again, some of ur lines are quite irresistable!
Looking back, i think i was much too sleepy, most of the time only like 35% serious :x
I dunno which is weirder - You taking his advice or trying it on a gal?
Aha! Heres Mr. Fervid blogger - ( the most ridiculous handle EVER. FRIGID is more like it :x )
Heh! Next time we chat, i'l send you the chat transcript - im sure Harimama wont mind :x its howlarious
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